Solved the Issue on my own.

Its impossible.  master Pages are unable to be outside the application that the current page is a part of, and a virtual directory is considered its own web application as long as its outside the root web directory.

I was able to use the theme (or master page) by coping them to the location that had the "Shared" page, but due to the fact that any 2 websites that would want to share a web page for me, anyways, will also have different master pages.

Its easier copy the files between web sites at this point.  Although I am glad its just minor things that only get updated once in a while.  Like on a blue moon.

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-Wilson Gearld Mead III
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